I don’t think that Bf and I are directly opposite. At one time we could have been labeled the exact same. He reminds me of myself from a couple of years ago. Just the particular-ness he possesses. Being around Ex taught me to loosen up. Maybe I will be that for Bf. I believe most of it comes from living alone. On my end it came from living with chaos and needing something to control. His might be a little healthier. Honestly though, I don’t think I could even recognize my direct opposite. (Leaving out my mother) I’m fairly amiable. I have met some very disagreeable people, but I still smile and just react pleasantly until they are gone. Public service jobs will do that to you.